Is This Relationship Love Or Comfort ,,or Should It End?
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a couple who have been to gether 5 yrs,regular sex life for three and a half years,the last eighteen months nothing has happened at all.there is stress factors .buying a house redundacy and no money as well as the female being on a dept managment course there is a sexual abuse issue with female as well.at first the male resented his partner due to money issues,as he felt forced into buying a house, his partner in the last 18 months has been going on and on about geting married,were the wedding would cost a fortune,its like she allways wants somethig to focus on and has an obssesion with buying things ,and the male partner feels pressurised and has lost interest in any thing she says or does….does anyone else think if they get back together which i dont think theres much chance that things could go back to how things were like in the first three and a half years
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There seems to be a lot of pressure in this relationship! She is pushing him to get things happening how she wants and he sounds to weak to stand up for himself, If he hasn;t mentioned to her about getting married then he isn’t ready, so Why push him?! all though they have been together for 5 years doesnt mean they are meant to be. The sex has probably stopped due to the issues and the pressure that they are both going through….. I say never go back if it never worked out in the first place! it’s obvious it wasn’t meant to be and you live and learn
i think when sex goes from a relationship it starts to fall apart and why get back together, it would be a friendship rather than a relationship and a bad friendship at that. It seems that she is driving him away by talking about weddings – he hasn’t proposed yet and doubt he will. I am in similar state at moment, been with bf for 8 years and as far as I know we have no problems, he has his house i have mine and meet up at weekends, he walked out on saturday morning for no reason and has phoned 3 times that day telling me he has changed bank address back to his? I don’t know where i stand or why it happened? we are not young and no plans of marriage, I have been there done that etc, we are 48 & 52, i am sitting here waiting for him to phone but he is so stubborn and doesn’t know how to say sorry. Your friend should talk to the girl and sort out the problems they have and decide what to do from there, talking is a thing guys don’t know how to do?
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